About the contributors:
|Elizabeth Kapstein is a person who stutters and a licensed clinical social worker living in New York city. Elizabeth is trauma and Addictions informed therapist trained in Psychodynamic Relational Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, EMDR, and Motivational Interviewing. Elizabeth has been active in the stuttering self-help community and co-founded Passing Twice (www.PassingTwice.com) and the Manhattan Stuttering Group. Elizabeth has a private practice in NYC at www.ektherapy.com.
|Elizabeth Mendez-Shannon (LMSW, PH.D.). Dr. Liz is an Associate Professor at Metropolitan State University of Denver. Having worked in Harlem, New York as a Program Director, she brings a wealth of social work experience and leadership in two key areas: Latino issues and integrated health care. Dr. Liz is also active in community organization and grass-root movements related to the stuttering community. She has been part the love in FRIENDS, SAY and NSA
Dr. Gina Davis is a clinical psychologist who stutters. She has a private practice in the San Francisco Bay Area.
|Nina G is by night is a comedian performing at comedy clubs, keynote speaker and children’s author of Once Upon an Accommodation: A Book About Learning Disabilities. By day she is a counselor at a community college where she works with students with disabilities. In 2015 she premiered her one-person show, Going Beyond Inspirational, and produced the first ever comedy compilation album of all comedians with disability aptly titled Disabled Comedy Only. Be on the lookout for the release of her Tedx video, Be Every Day Ally. www.NinaGcomedian.com.
|Nora A. O’Connor is a person who stutters and a licensed clinical social worker living in Los Angeles, California. Nora is trained in Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Trauma Resiliency Model. During her career she began to recognize that interventions she was learning and using would be effective for people who stutter. Nora now treats people who stutter in her private practice. www.noraoconnorlcsw.com
|Jeff Shames has been active in the stuttering support world for more than 25 years, and has presented at numerous conferences. Jeff is creator and co-producer of the award-winning personal documentary “Spit It Out,” a funny, poignant portrait of his coming to terms with his stutter. Currently he works as a psychotherapist at Lighthouse Guild. A native of Tulsa, Oklahoma, Jeff lives in New York City with his wife, Elisa DeCarlo.
This forum provides an interactive, open conversation with a collective of Mental Health Professionals coming together to discuss ways to think about the role of mental health therapy and practitioners in the stuttering community. The focus will be on how we understand and improve our connections with ourselves, partners, family, siblings, parents, friends, work colleagues, and/or children.
We will focus on;
1. Understanding yourself, others, and community through the lens of mental health
2. How you work with your partners/members who do/do not stutter
3. Communicate better and strengthen your closeness and connection
Themes will be used in this forum throughout the conference. Each day we will start a discussion topic, linked below. Please tell us your thoughts, experiences and questions.
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More importantly, we hope you enjoy the forum!
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“Start to do something. That way, time will be an ally, not an enemy.” The Fifth Mountain Share your stuttered words every day, sweet and proud! – Elizabeth Kapstein October 22, 2016 485 total views, 0 views today
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I have many sweet memories of sharing experiences with other stutterers. Here’s a photo of a bunch of us at Brooklyn, NY Pride. We had custom made Pride tee shirts. I taught the group how to make balloon sticks. I … Continue reading
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There are many profound writers in the stuttering community. One of the most gifted writers to bring a stutterers experience to life in writing is the late Marty Jezer. I wrote a reflection in 2005, Stuttering Life Bound Up in … Continue reading
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Anxiety I think about the role of “anxiety” in our lives as stutterers. It has a powerful way to describe our feelings or attitudes towards my stuttering. Most people tell you that they experience “anxiety” during the stuttering experience. What … Continue reading
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As with my earlier posts this October, I am writing again about my experiences at conferences for people who stutter. When I was first around in the early 1990’s, the NSA was still called the National Stuttering Project. I met … Continue reading
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I recently began avoidance reduction speech therapy and a few weeks ago, my SLP suggested that I write a letter to my stuttering. As a person who has been a covert stutterer for many years, he wanted me to start … Continue reading
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Years with supportive friends who stutter keep me on my own path of shared stuttering words with pride and joy. What about you? When you travel towards your objective be sure to pay attention to the path. The path teaches … Continue reading
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How do you educate your family and friends about stuttering? We can do so with “pride, respect, dignity, and recognition.” Stuttering is often a misunderstood and stigmatizing speech disorder. Family and friends may have many questions about stuttering. People who … Continue reading
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For many decades I have been both a baseball fan and a person who stutters. It feels natural to combine these two interests; particularly at NSA and Friends’ Conventions, during the summer, which I think of as “stuttering season.” When … Continue reading
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The word for this week is GROUNDING. The following definition is taken from Seeking Safety: A Treatment for PTSD and Substance Abuse (L. Najavatis). Grounding is a set of strategies to detach from emotional pain, (i.e. racing and thoughts, negative talk, … Continue reading
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I use the word “transformation” to describe changes in my life. It has been a powerful way to describe my evolving attitude towards my stuttering and understanding of mental illness. I enjoy looking up words that are in my vernacular. … Continue reading
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Gina and Nina share their Monday Modalities from an article they created for the Huffington Post: “Everything We Needed To Know About Stuttering In College Came From Mafia Movies” http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/everything-we-needed-to-know-about-stuttering-in-college_us_579e8c84e4b004301c51733f Gina and Nina Monday, October 10, 2016 389 total views, no … Continue reading
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Katherine Preston talk about words that come up for you when you hear the word “stutter.” Check it out: “Let’s play a word association game. What is the first word you think of when you hear the word ‘stutter’?” Stuttering … Continue reading
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I wrote earlier in October about now having been in the stuttering support world for 25 years. A corollary is that November 4 will be the 25th anniversary of my father’s death. It is interesting to me that there is so … Continue reading
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I worked as a first responder during 9/11. At the time, I was a program director in a community-based organization in Harlem, New York. My heart was full and I felt a call to help. As a person who stuttered, … Continue reading
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SELF-WORTH Self-Worth….. What’s the first thing that comes to your mind when you say “self-worth?” Is it confidence? Is it prosperity? Is it success? Perhaps it’s an image; one that cultivates positivity and growth. It may be the idea that … Continue reading
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One of the reasons I became a psychologist is because I’m fascinated with personal transformation: people achieving their goals, cultivating self-understanding, overcoming painful experiences and emotions, and uncovering a sense of empowerment and belonging. When I was young, I wanted … Continue reading
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Resourcing I really like Resourcing as a daily living tool. Practice resourcing by connecting with our own experience, in our lives, bodies, community, and/or environment. Resource when you start to worry, experience anxious or racing thoughts and/or experience feared situations; … Continue reading
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As the ISAD Online Conference begins, I look back at my stuttering season of 2016, which is how I think of the warm weather months. And realizing that I have been a part of the stuttering support world for 25 … Continue reading
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